This is what I think, I feel, I say, I...
The trouble with love is...
To all teenagers out there,
frankly speaking,
this is NOT the time for you to get attached!
Seriously!
"Love can be the sweetest thing in the world."
"To love and be loved is the most wonderful thing in this world."
But if you are an adolescent,
don't ever think of getting into relationship.
Be it BGR, gay, lesbians or what so ever...
Your job is just to live life to the fullest!
you don't need a partner to make that happen.
Come on!
Let's think about it.
At a young age, you are already attached to someone else.
This cycle usually continues even after the relationship didn't work.
From that time on wards,
freedom is = nothing.
Why?
If you keep on getting into relationship,
until the day you are married,
I think this question will pop out of your head;
"Where is my freedom???"
You were always attached to another person since you were young.
You didn't get to live and enjoy yourself alone.
You were busy controlling your partner.
Or
Your partner were busy controlling you.
Don't you think that is like limiting you freedom?
Every night, you need to at least spend some time with you partner.
Every day you will be thinking your partner.
You will need to inform your partner your whereabout.
You are sometimes not allowed to mingle around with other people
(of your partner's gender)
just because your partner don't know them.
(Doesn't your partner sounds MORE like your parents???)
They restrict you from doing this and that.
Is your parents restriction too good,
that you need someone else to give you more of it?
...
It is just funny that when our parents
do not give us our freedom,
we will keep on fussing over it until we get what we want.
But when our partner
(the one which I doubt will last for more than 5 years or even 5 month)
does that,
we will tend to just obey them
without any hesitation.
How ironic?
Our parents does that for they have valid reason.
But our partner does that for they don't want you to make them jealous.
...
All I can say is,
love at this period is useless!
and just such a waste of time!
All your 'Youth Freedom' will be used up
by your X-ces.
You didn't spent much time enjoying your own personal time.
Most of your time was all on your partner.
Don't bother following the trend of getting attached at this age.
Bother about the YOUR studies.
Bother about YOUR future.
Bother about YOUR style.
Bother about something else.
"Let this time be YOUR time! Not someones time."
My advice is to just be alone.
Not alone as in being Emo.
Just don't isolate yourself to a person which
you think
will not stay with you for the rest of your life.
Get yourself well attached to all sorts of people.
Like your friends, family, community.
Widen up your social circle.
You will worry less
as you got this whole lot
of people to support you,
rather than one pathetic human being.
This is the only time where you can have you own freedom!
Once you get married,
you will never get to enjoy the kind of life you have back then.
Gain as much knowledge as you can.
It is okay to be nerd or geek at this love thing. Your can nurture them when you are older. The experience will be better.
...
"Eating a ripe mango is sweeter than the newly grown..."
...
Don't worry about not being able to be in a relationship.
Fate will choose who you are suppose to be with.
---
By the way,
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!
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Prince Syafiq J
The trouble with love is...
To all teenagers out there,
frankly speaking,
this is NOT the time for you to get attached!
Seriously!
"Love can be the sweetest thing in the world."
"To love and be loved is the most wonderful thing in this world."
But if you are an adolescent,
don't ever think of getting into relationship.
Be it BGR, gay, lesbians or what so ever...
Your job is just to live life to the fullest!
you don't need a partner to make that happen.
Come on!
Let's think about it.
At a young age, you are already attached to someone else.
This cycle usually continues even after the relationship didn't work.
From that time on wards,
freedom is = nothing.
Why?
If you keep on getting into relationship,
until the day you are married,
I think this question will pop out of your head;
"Where is my freedom???"
You were always attached to another person since you were young.
You didn't get to live and enjoy yourself alone.
You were busy controlling your partner.
Or
Your partner were busy controlling you.
Don't you think that is like limiting you freedom?
Every night, you need to at least spend some time with you partner.
Every day you will be thinking your partner.
You will need to inform your partner your whereabout.
You are sometimes not allowed to mingle around with other people
(of your partner's gender)
just because your partner don't know them.
(Doesn't your partner sounds MORE like your parents???)
They restrict you from doing this and that.
Is your parents restriction too good,
that you need someone else to give you more of it?
...
It is just funny that when our parents
do not give us our freedom,
we will keep on fussing over it until we get what we want.
But when our partner
(the one which I doubt will last for more than 5 years or even 5 month)
does that,
we will tend to just obey them
without any hesitation.
How ironic?
Our parents does that for they have valid reason.
But our partner does that for they don't want you to make them jealous.
...
All I can say is,
love at this period is useless!
and just such a waste of time!
All your 'Youth Freedom' will be used up
by your X-ces.
You didn't spent much time enjoying your own personal time.
Most of your time was all on your partner.
Don't bother following the trend of getting attached at this age.
Bother about the YOUR studies.
Bother about YOUR future.
Bother about YOUR style.
Bother about something else.
"Let this time be YOUR time! Not someones time."
My advice is to just be alone.
Not alone as in being Emo.
Just don't isolate yourself to a person which
you think
will not stay with you for the rest of your life.
Get yourself well attached to all sorts of people.
Like your friends, family, community.
Widen up your social circle.
You will worry less
as you got this whole lot
of people to support you,
rather than one pathetic human being.
This is the only time where you can have you own freedom!
Once you get married,
you will never get to enjoy the kind of life you have back then.
Gain as much knowledge as you can.
It is okay to be nerd or geek at this love thing. Your can nurture them when you are older. The experience will be better.
...
"Eating a ripe mango is sweeter than the newly grown..."
...
Don't worry about not being able to be in a relationship.
Fate will choose who you are suppose to be with.
---
By the way,
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!
*
*
*
*
*
*
*
*
*
*
*
Prince Syafiq J
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